Laughing all the way

Last week was the Jingle Bell Run. My morning workout buddy, B, met me by the St Pete Pier for the 2.9 mile wanna-be 5k. I’d like to say we were laughing all the way, but the last 3/4 I really pushed and could hardly talk. It felt good though to be able to tell myself “You’re almost there, just keep giving it your all until the finish line,” and then actually following through with it. I don’t always listen to my own voice in my head. I’ve given myself a small challenge – not at all running related. Every once and a while I get about 6 grey hairs. I have stopped pulling them out. Just to see if I can keep the promise to myself despite the temptation. Then maybe I can ignore my mother in law’s amazing fudge. Or push the final mile instead of the final 3/4… if you can’t trust the promises you make to yourself, what can you believe in?

Speaking of Laughing All the Way… I’m working on some family photos cards. I send New Years Cards for 2 reasons:
1. we’re not Christian, so we don’t send Christmas cards.
2. Almost everyone we send a card to the kids get a gift from, and they have to send a Thank You note anyway, so this doubles as a thank you note.
Our photos for the card came out OK, but there’s not a great one of the 4 of us, or a great one of the 2 girls together. So I’ve been playing in Photoshop with these…

******SPOILER ALERT******

4 Darrows but Brian not quite smiling


Card #2 starring Wendy with a cast on her arm


Card 3 backed by a photo I took of Alice

We decided “Laughing all the way” was too Christian. Actually, the song Jingle Bells has nothing to do with Christmas – the lyrics are about a sleigh ride. But don’t try explaining that to an 84-year-old Jewish great grandmother!

Saturday I ran with a friend from yoga. We did almost 3 miles and ended back along the water where there was a yoga for charity class, all money benefiting sharks. I love outdoor yoga when the weather is nice. There was a light mist in the air which kept me cool, and had the sky been a bit bluer it would have been perfect. But we got to see white pelicans out in the Bay during class, which are apparently rare. And everyone got a blue marble, so we’re now all part of the Blue Marble Game. I know who I want to pass mine to!

can you find me?

That night Brian and I went to a Grinchmas party and I saw “How the Grinch Stole Christmas” for the first time. Yes, the cartoon, for the first time. It’s an annual party but I am usually socializing or popping in and out with other parties to attend. This time I plunked myself down and watched the movie!

Sunday I took a friend out shopping. In May I lost a dear friend to cancer, and her 14 year old daughter was in desperate need of new underthings. 5 hours later she got 7 bras, 11 pairs of panties, some clothes, some holiday gifts, and I had a few items too. We had Bra 101 lessons: wear dark under black, wear nude under white, wear the right band size so hopefully you don’t sag in the future, wear a sports bra that does it’s job, bras shouldn’t dig or poke, etc. I think she was relieved to not have to bra shop with dad.

In the evenings, my girls are busy with studying for midterms, science fair, history fair and the like. I’m planning winter break and Ragnar Florida Keys. Therefore, I’ll have to try to get all AM workouts in this week. This morning was 75 mins core yoga, and I think tomorrow is boot camp in the park. Off I go to plan the circuit! Other than running, what’s your favorite outdoor workout?

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She earned some brownie points…

Today my friend Katie blogged about “resisting the urge of the donut” or — how to avoid snacks your coworkers bring in. I thought it was ironic that her downfall was a donut because I had a donut conversation tonight too!

On the way home from work I picked up my daughter, and she told me about the 100% she got in math. I know we’re told not to reward kids with junk food, but when you live in a house with a healthy kitchen, a little junk goes a long way as a reward. I can’t remember the last time we had cookies or chips in the house… so I asked her, “Do you want a donut?” and she said “hells yah!”

Instead of turning right to go home, I turned left into the grocery store parking lot. I turned off the car. She looked up from her cell phone and at me and asked, “Why are we here? Are we really getting donuts? Do I have to share them with my sister? No, you know what, I’ll share them with you!” I love when teenagers talk in stream of consciousness run-on sentences!

We discussed the pros and cons of store-bakery donuts vs. Entemanns with the little crumbles on top. She wanted the crumbles. Unfortuantely, none of them were chocolate today. They were all white. I suggested a cake mix instead. I think we spent 10 minutes in the baked goods aisle comparing what was on sale, what I had a coupon for, what she likes, what daddy likes, what her friend Jack might want to bake with her after school tomorrow, etc. etc.

We ended up with brownies – and more brownies — and frosting.

Don’t ask.

I won’t take part in the buttercream because it will make me sick to my stomach, but those Duncan Hines Decandence chocolate peanut butter brownies can line my coffin someday and I’ll be a happy girl!

At work today Brian and I spoke about moving our business into a rental space we saw in downtown St Pete. We played with configurations of our furniture in that space – drawn to scale on graph paper. We might lose our kitchen table, but none of us sit at it for lunch anyway. We either sit at our desks or the game table.

And since this post seems to be going backwards in time, I started the day today with 75 mins Power Yoga with my friend B.

In about 15 minutes, Brian and I are driving across the bridge to Tampa (it always rains when we have to drive there at night) for a Ragnar Relay clinic at Fit2Run. Not because we need to learn more about Ragnar, but because we want to meet future potential team members! Our TN team shirts are going to be so cool! And we’re contemplating 2 del Sol teams if you wanna join…

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BITTS 5k, gross food & Coupon deals

Saturday I ran the first BITTS 5k.

B.I.T.T.S. is a local boot camp. I don’t know what it stands for, but my friend Sandy does their bootcamp a few days a week, and has Brian as her running coach the other days. Since the BITTS lady knows Sandy runs, she asked her to help organize the 5k. There wasn’t much to organize their first time around. It was just at a local park with chalk arrows on the ground showing our course.
The race benefited Operation Attack on Poverty. If you brought food or clothing donations it was free.

Sandy & me before the 5k, 6:55am

The sights were boring at first – mobile homes and parking lots – but ended with a lake, bridge and trees.

They had smoothie coupons, water bottles and pens in little drawstring backpacks as goodie bags. Then a Kodak rep came with BPA-free reusable, collapsible water pouches on carabiners. Those were cool! I got some more from her to use for Digital Running goodie bags.

There were prizes for the first 4 finishing males and females, and a few random prize drawings. They picked “16th female” out of the basket, and I won an oil change. That’s probably my first race prize! They also had a prize for the first finishing stroller-pusher. She got a Kodak all-in-one photo printer-scanner-fax machine! (But she handed the stroller off to her husband and mile 2 so some say she cheated, but she was the only one with a stroller so she won by default).

I ran in my Tees by Tina tank top, spinning shorts from Bodyrock, Brooks shoes – don’t remember the socks. I had a Bondi Band that I actually wore on my wrist to wipe away sweat.

Me, post-5k

I also made a new playlist, and some of the songs were from online suggestions of songs I never even heard before. I checked to make sure they had the right tempo, and then chose 14 random songs to keep my feet moving and surprise my brain that morning. (14, in case I fast-forwarded through some).

The funniest part of the race (for me) was running towards the 2-mile marker, which was the BITTS lady’s dad in a lawn chair pointing which way to go. Right at that moment Axl Rose was singing “Where do we go now?” from Sweet Child o’ Mine (they weren’t ALL new songs, but it was an online suggestion) and the lyrics just went perfectly with the seated dad pointing me around to the right.

I went in the race knowing I avg a 12-min-mile and came away with a 36+ min 5k, so I was right where I expected. But my friend Janet said the course was long.

What they need next year: Music & someone stretching people out at the finish. Or if they want to attract a larger crowd – a chip-timing system. But since all I was expecting was a little neighborhood 5k, it was just fine.

Songs I ran to: Warmed up to Coming Home – Diddy Dirty Money
Black Horse and the Cherry Tree – got me started off right
Moves Like Jagger – by now my heart figured out that I was running and this makes me smile
Stronger – Kanye version (since OJ had Isotoners…)
Boys & Girls – by Pixie Lott (hadn’t listened to her in many months)
Waka Waka – we used to dance to this in Zumba class so it gets me moving!
Keep Your Head – the Ting Tings (new to me)
Tightrope – Janelle Monae (new to me, I skipped the last 2 mins)
Gone Daddy Gone – Gnarls Barkely (recommended online) kept me from taking a walk break
Run Run Away – Slade (the old 80s song, ended up skipping it)
Sweet Child o Mine – GnR version
In My Head – Jason Derulo (one of those songs I am embarrassed to admit I dance my butt off to in the car.)

lunch of champions

I had a volunteer meeting for a fundraiser that afternoon where we were treated to a diner lunch and gelato – the snacks of 5k running champs I’m sure! I got 2 eggs over hard, has browns and plain whole wheat toast (which was under $4!) I was surprised that the diner was decked out with Marilyn Monroe art and memorabilia. Choosing a gelato flavor was much more difficult. I ended up with half extra-dark chocolate and half turtle cheesecake. YUM!

While we were talking on the sidewalk eating gelato we met up with a guy who started a 501c3 that sets up booths around town where people can paint wooden swings, and they hang the swings around the city. (Does that make him the lead Swinger?) I’m not really sure how they raise money or what for (I’ll read about it eventually), but I suggested he do pink swings for Oct. Breast Cancer Awareness month and help support My Hope Chest, and he really liked that idea. If any of you bloggers want to write a PINK POST for Oct. Breast Cancer Awareness month, I am friends with the Founder of My Hope Chest and can provide answers to interview questions, artwork, data, etc.

That night we had a couple fun things going on. Some of our friends are in a Rotary group. Their Rotary is raising money to create a Flugutag to race for the Tampa Bay Red Bull Flugtag. (Seriously, click that Flugtag link. Even the first 10 seconds are worth the giggle.) They had a movie night in someone’s backyard. They were projecting Anchorman on a big sheet and set up chairs and had food & beverages for sale. The great news is that the hosts live a few blocks from us and want to start hosting movie night every Fri. Basically they’ll just project a movie and let friends know which one it is, and if it’s something you like you can stop on by. Brian and I got cozy in the hammock – but we missed the end of the movie because I got a text…

**WARNING – GROSS FOOD AHEAD** Our friends wanted to take a little adventure to find Munchies 420 Cafe – a hole-in-the-wall in Sarasota that manages to put everything and anything on a sandwich. Take for example the FAT SANDY which is a footlong hoagie with 2 cheeseburgers, chicken strips, onion rings, crinkle cut fries and mozzerella sticks – and to hold it all together it is topped with Mac&Cheese! Although I am always up for an adventure in the middle of a Sat night, I am not always into foods that will cause tummy problems, heartburn and 3 weeks of running off extra calories. Thus I went along, but did not order junk food for myself. I did try their still-warm homemade potato chips and they were delicious. The verdict in the Fat Sandy? The burgers were over cooked and pulled off, one chicken tender was over fried, but the rest blended together in a hard-to-eat, wonderous munchie fantasy. The onion rings were the best part. Or so I was told. By the time we drove back across the bridge from Sarasota I was wiped out and fell asleep before I could count backwards from 99.

– To quickly backtrack to what I missed blogging about earlier last week, Fri I didn’t workout since I knew I was going the 5k on Sat. The Cross Country team came in first place for Varsity Girls. Alice ran despite her tendonitis and took a few mins off last week but is not quite back to below 23 mins yet. Their new shirts say “May the Course be with you” :) Thurs I did a 3.4 mile run to prep. Not what I would suggest if you are RACING a 5k, but fine for just getting out there and running a 5k.

Deals I took advantage of at Publix this week:

V8 Fusion (instead of the apple juice the kids drink) – Buy one at $3.99, get one free. And I had a $1 off coupon off each, so I got 2 for $1.99 – that makes them $1/ea. We don’t buy the Light because it has sucralose. (Don’t eat foods that rhyme with gross!)

Hunts tomato sauce BOGO – this is the larger can than I usually buy, but I can use half at a time and keep the other half in a jar in the fridge. So for us it’s 4 meals worth of tomato sauce for $2.

Publix frozen organic margherita pizza on sale $3.99

Polaner all fruit spread – this is part of Brian’s PBJ lunch staple – on sale 2 for $5. Coupons on their web site.

Herbal Essences (the usual deal) 2/$5 and $1 off coupon. I wish I had 2 coupons… My kids use a lot of shampoo!

“Buy theirs, get ours free” deal. I bought 2 bags of Nestle chocolate chips with a Save $1/2 coupon and got 2 bags of Publix chocolate chips free. 2 bags are going in the freezer for Thanksgiving when we bake whatever suits our fancy. One is getting hidden in the pantry for me to munch on after dinner at night the next few weeks (shh), and one is going in banana bread that I am baking later today.

And I had a “spend $50 get $10 gift card” coupon, so I’ll save $10 next week. My receipt showed a savings of $35.94.

Then we got free tampons at Target. On sale for $6.99 & I had a $2 off coupon = $5. Their special was buy a box, get a Target $5 gift card = like getting it free! I try to buy my bananas at Target too – they are always cheapest there. $.24/banana. Everyone else sells them buy the pound, but I have done the math and for us it’s cheaper, plus we eat about 12 bananas a week at our house.

Target has Kashi TLC bars Buy 5 get the 6th box free. I put that with 3 coupons – 2 said Save $1.50/2 boxes and one said Save $1.50/any box. So I save $4.50 plus got the free box and we’ll have TLC bars the next few weeks for lunchboxes and the occasional breakfast-on-the-go.

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Running Twins

Never did my daughter think that by being on the school’s running teams, she’d become a mentor – but she has.

Her school starts at 3 years old and goes through high school. The Track and Cross Country teams start in 6th grade and go through 12th grade. Sure, there’s JV and Varsity, but they all pretty much work out together, take buses to events together, have the same spaghetti dinners, etc.

So when Alice was in 8th grade last year and befriended a 6th grader who had STAR potential, the 6th grader started really looking up to Alice. They already had a lot in common, they were both great students, great runners, older sisters, Jew-ish (get it?), at the same school, and super TYPE-A STRESS-OUT personalities. When Alice would watch this other girl stress out before a meet, she’d try to help calm her down, and in turn begin to calm herself.

Now Alice is in 9th grade, so she’s like the super cool high schooler to the now-7th grader. Yet, they still have their inside jokes and silly high-socks and share planned-out snacks at meets.

This week Alice experienced some tendonitis in her right ankle. Just above her ankle bone she started getting very sore. Brian was pretty sure it was tendonitis, and the athletic trainer at the school confirmed his suspicion, and suggested that Alice’s racing flats were too worn. She has put them on for the first time this season for a timed 5k trial, ran hard and fast enough to secure herself a varsity spot, but then hurt for days afterwards in that ankle.

They got this news on Thursday, and Saturday (today) is the first meet of the season, so they had to get her new shoes – and fast! Our neighborhood running store is Feet First. We usually have great success there and recommend it to others. Alice found both the running shoes and racing spikes she wanted there. (First spikes!) She got the Saucony Progrid Mirage (bye bye Kinvara) in a bright blue that is so vibrant she calls them her toothpaste shoes. And she got the Saucony Kilkenny XC4 spikes in black with hot pink. (Were these named after South Park? she wants to know…) They did not have the spikes in her size at either store (she actually wanted the running shoes in an 8.5 but the spikes in a 9.5????), so Brian ended up having to drive her out to Sports Authority to buy them. (I wish someone had called my cell on the way and I would have texted over a COUPON.)

So now, she has some hot new Sauconys to rock today! I do not repeatedly say Saucony because I receive compensation. It’s just the shoe her slender foot likes, and we have so many boxes from their shoes in the garage now I could build an awesome fort!

Then he took her to CVS and got some Icy-Hot spray to help her over the next few days. And I think she took 2 ibruprofen each day as well. (We’re not a big medication family…) Unfortunately, her first 5k will be in brand new shoes. Keep your fingers crossed because girls varsity is probably at the start line as I type this. (I’m not there, I have a bridal shower to go to soon. Yes, I look adorable.)

BUT back to her little running buddy… So Alice goes to school with her new shoes on Friday. She decides to wear the Mirages all day to break them in and help her ankle feel better because they are probably better for her foot than her Keds or ballet flats from Payless that she usually wears. And I think she threw her spikes in her bag to break in a bit during XC practice. And along comes her little 7th grade buddy who ALSO bought new shoes this week — and, you know this is coming, got the SAME FREAKING TWO PAIR IN THE SAME COLORS – totally coincidentally!! No way-no way!

Sadly, her little running buddy will not be at the meet today because she is on antibiotics for walking pneumonia.

They are really looking forward to running together at the annual Disney Cross Country Classic and then staying overnight at a Disney hotel and perhaps hitting a water park the next day. Disney pissed off a lot of parents, however, by putting this event on Yom Kippur, the holiest day of the Jewish Calendar. I understand, though, that it is always the same week of Oct to mesh with all the other stuff on the Disney calendar and Fla running calendar. It’s really Yom Kippur that moved, since it’s a lunar holiday and thus is on a different week of the Western calendar each year.

I’m so happy Alice has this opportunity to feel like the cool teen friend. Although the 2 girls have a great friendship, deep down I know this kid looks up to Alice, and I know Alice recognizes that and tries to keep the younger girl in the loop all the time. Not to mention it’s a bit of a self esteem boost.

I have not much new to report except that I did more yoga and went to at an art opening called F*** The Big C. The artists on display were all cancer survivors from around the world. One was on hand to answer the same questions over and over (that shows patience!) and she did a bit of an interactive piece as well.

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The artist (on the right) had thyroid cancer followed within the year by breast cancer and had a double mastectomy. She is donating proceeds from the event to My Hope Chest, who I volunteer with frequently. My Hope Chest is the only National NonProfit that helps survivors without insurance obtain breast reconstruction surgery.

NO SPOILER: Last night we watched The Tourist with Johnny Depp and Angelina Jolie. I give it a B. Not a B+. If Johnny Depp were not in that role, it would probably be a C. It’s a lot more girly and less action than the commercials made it seem.

And just because everyone seems to want to know: For breakfast I had 1/2 whole wheat Thomas’ bagel with Skippy natural crunchy PB on top and a drizzle of honey. And water. It’s thrilling, I know. But lunch will be grand! I am off to a bridal shower, because next month my friend Meredith will marry her best friend Scott. It’s a beautiful thing!!

Enjoy your weekend!!

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