June Cleaver Wannabe

My daughter’s 7th grade just finished reading The Outsiders. Because my girls are a year apart, her older sister read it last year. After hearing so many moms talk about how much they loved this book, I sat down one Saturday morning and read the whole thing cover to cover. I had never read it or seen the movie, and honestly I hadn’t heard of it until the first time I toured the English class they read it in.

After they finish reading the book, the unit culminates in 60′s Day at school. This is an award-winning curriculum program our 7th grade teaching team developed. The kids can dress as a greaser or a soc. (If they don’t dress up they get a lunch detention.) Instead of going to their regular classes, the rotate activities with their advisor / homeroom teacher. They learn some dances from the 60′s and ogle a teacher’s yearbook from the 60′s and make up music videos to songs from the 60′s. During their morning break parent volunteers served root beer floats. I came in costume with the best 60′s homemaker look I could muster, including a very sprayed updo – which I never wear.

My daughter had a tougher time. She was afraid that even though she has Converse sneakers and they “wore those back then” she couldn’t wear her because they have cupcakes on them. She was also told she was not allowed to wear skinny jeans, which are the only jeans she owns. And when she tried on Daddy’s white undershirt it was to her knees. In the end we were able to piece together a look she was happy with, topped by a pleather jacket borrow from a friend. (Thanks Anne!) She also didn’t brush her hair and wore too much eyeliner.

Before school, though, we had to stop at the orthodontist for an appointment, and after root beer floats were served I had a meeting at my office. So I felt myself explaining my outfit a lot. People thought it was hysterical. Even when I ran to the post office the employee there asked a lot of questions about how I attached my fake eyelashes. It was the first time I had worn them, and apparently I did a good job of not having a tale-tell thick black line.

Have you read The Outsiders? Now that my daughters have both finished the book I can finally watch the movie. Did you know the author was a girl – not woman, but a 16 year old girl?! Maybe that’s why the perspective seems to be so clear!

I thought the book was wonderful. I don’t think it would have made a huge impact on me at 16 like so many people said. Maybe because with my private school and stable home life I was so sheltered that the whole notion of these kids would just seem to far-fetched. Like when my daughter says we live in a bad neighborhood because her bike got stolen. I’d kind of like to drive her by a bad neighborhood so she can see we live in peaceful suburbia and how lucky she is!

Alice in Wonderland had a big impact on me. That’s why I named my first born Alice. So did the Judy Blume book Starring Sally J. Freedman as Herself. In college it was A Prayer for Owen Meany, and later City of Ember, Jitterbug Perfume – and most recently Born to Run. Right now I’m reading Why Marry A Millionaire? Just Be One! and it made an immediate impact on me. I’d love to go to a remote cabin with this book and my husband and a pen and really drill down some meaningful stuff for our futures. Just starting this book helped me melt some personal ice and hug my father again after many years. I am forever grateful for that!

And since this blog is supposed to be about working out, I’d like to mention that over the weekend I tried Body Pump class at the gym for the first time. I LOVED it! The teacher was great – a very happy, motivating guy who called everyone by name. He did a great job of offering corrections while being an example of correct form at the front of the room. I think if I had discovered this class 4 years ago when I first joined the gym my whole body would look different. I hope my schedule will allow me some more Sunday morning classes in the near future! I went running Monday morning with some moms and did yardwork with Wendy on Tues. She’s grounded and I told her she could only be part of Daddy’s birthday celebration if she helped me clean the yard for an hour. And she did!

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Weekend Warrior

Friday was core class at the gym. I did about 15 mins on the Stairmaster beforehand.

That night we all watched the movie Inception with Leonardo DiCaprio, Joseph Gordon-Levitt (3rd Rock) and Ellen Page (Juno). I like Ellen Page a lot. It’s still funny for me to see the kid from 3rd Rock as an adult on screen. It was a weird sci-fi thriller where people can enter each other’s dreams, and the issues that can cause. I give it a B-. The effects were good but I think the story missed its mark.

Saturday I had to wake up early to take Wendy to the S.A.T. My baby at the SAT. Crazy. It’s part of a special program to identify smart 7th graders, and I thought it was nice that the 7th graders had their own part of the hall for the test separate from the high schoolers. Since I was awake anyway, I headed over to Yogablu for some Power Yoga. That woke me up!

Every time I take a yoga class with a new teacher, there’s something the teacher says that sticks with my practice for the long-term. I hear different teachers in my head as I do Yoga, guiding me, no matter who the actual instructor is at the time. The little nugget I took away from this lady was while we were lying with our legs back over our heads for plow, moving into candlestick. Sometimes that hurts my neck, and holding candlestick for a few breaths is hard for me. She said, simply, “There should be no weight at all on your traps or neck, it’s all on the tops of your shoulderblades.” And that was all I needed to change my candlestick pose.

After class we were talking a bit about childbirth (there were only 3 of us and we were all women) and the teacher said she had a 20 month old when she was 8 month pregnant with #2 (I have that part beat) and she went in for her 8 month checkup and they said they had to turn the baby because her feet were down. So she had a special ultrasound appointment, and when she went in for that she found out she was having twins! She went to tell her husband immediately – at work – and went in to labor 5 DAYS later! So she had 5 days prep for twins! And they wouldn’t have known at all if baby Stephanie had had her feet up. Yowza.

Sunday I did not work out. There may have been bra shopping with a daughter. And laundry. And the eating of whole wheat spinach ravioli with sauteed zucchini and tomatoes on top. I also used the $20 Amamzon gift card I got for only $10 from Living Social to buy my niece the Prince from Tangled Doll (Flynn Rider?) He was unavail during the holiday season so he’ll just show up this week in the mail!

Today I am off to the gym. And it’s new intern day 2 at work. He’s awfully quiet while he works but nice when we discuss his work. I think there’s still a level of awkwardness that needs to wear off.

I will also be trying to avoid the chocolate cupcakes with raspberry sauce that Alice made. (Cupcakes from box, sauce from scratch.) And just for Lindsay I’ll try to get a picture of me in workout gear ;)

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My kids blog for homework

We have Netflix streaming through our Wii, and the girls and I have been watching a series called Rita Rocks. We never saw it when it was on TV, and there are only 2 seasons, and now we’re on the last episode of season 2. We’re all curled up on the couch ready for 20 mins of giggling. The dad on the show reminds us a bit of Brian, and they have 2 girls battling “sisterly love” like our house. And the mom is about to have a baby. But Alice jumps up and says -

“I forgot to blog for English class.”

Not only are my kids required to blog for certain classes and to prove they read certain assignments, they are occasionally required to comment on classmates’ blogs too. Between blogging and Facebook and Youtube and sports, I don’t know how they fit in homework!

Wendy had her last soccer game of the season today. She came home bummed because NOT ONLY did they lose, but the ref messed up so many calls that the parents were yelling at him. I know that happens a lot in the movies, but it’s usually not allowed at my kids’ games. Meanwhile Alice signed up for track season and is very excited about the new rubberized track the school just got.

This morning I started the day with Yoga Sculpt. It was a flow class with weights. I used 4 lb weights and will try 5 lbs next time. Lots of sun salutation type stuff sprinkled with some squats, presses, flies, tricep kickbacks, mountain climbers and Warrior 2 with weights. It was 75 mins and I think I started sweating around 50 mins. The studio also offers hot yoga – not Bikram, just hot flow class – and I am excited to try that. I bought a one month pass.

Wendy takes the SAT on Saturday. Have you heard about 7th graders taking the SAT? Did you know the SAT has a written essay now? And it’s out of 2400 points, not 1600 points. Yep, totally different. Should we tell them it doesn’t matter because finding a way to be happy is way more important than tests and which school you go to? Nah, we’ll let the kids figure that out on their own…

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Sick on and off

First the whine:

So it all started with getting dizzy during yoga 2 weeks ago. I went to the doctor, she said I had a middle ear infection, prescribed 10 days of antibiotics, and warned me that one round of antibiotics probably would not clear it up. But that they could potentially cause a yeast infection (niiice) and I should take antihistamine at the same time to dry up the junk in my head.

I took my antibiotics like a good girl, with tons of water and an L-Lycine chaser to ward off the infection. (I also ate a little yogurt twice a day.) I only took antihistamine a couple time because it knocks me out for a good 12 hours of sleep. Now I am a week out of the antibiotics and my lymph nodes in my armpits are actually swollen and sore, and my nose is running. This is the weirdest head cold ever. Wherever I got this from — they can have it back!

On to the Love:

My kids had the whole week of Thanksgiving off school for the first time. We usually do Thanksgiving just the 4 of us at home, but with the whole week + 2 weekends, we split some time with my parents. We drove down to Ft Lauderdale Sat-Tues and were home Wed-Sun. Saturday we played games – mah jongg and Alice taught us how to play hearts. Sunday we helped my mom sell her jewelry at a boutique at a temple, that night we saw Harry Potter. Monday we went bowling. Tuesday we hung around the house until it was time to drive back.

dino-copyWe exchange Thanksgiving presents in my house. For us it is a holiday to talk about what we are thankful for, be together in PJs with whatever food we want, and play games. Brian got the girls Wii Party, so we played about 7 hours of that. I got the girls custom necklaces from http://www.etsy.com/listing/61753951/your-choice-personalized-wild-and-sweet. Alice’s said “Will run for cupcakes” and Wendy’s had the dinosaur we drew on her Converse a few months ago – but with an added soccer ball since she now loves to play soccer. I am happy the designer worked with my drawing. They also had those pretty, sparkly beads hanging off and their names on the back as seen in the Etsy listing. The girls also have big presents coming – Alice is going to Washington DC with her class and Wendy is getting her soccer team t-shirt and sweatshirt even though I said I refuse to buy another dumb, overpriced school shirt. She also designed her own Converse on the Converse web site. The girls gave me a car air freshner from Bath and Body – in cinnamon so the car will smell like fresh baked yummy stuff when it is in the hot, Florida sun. (Which I wanted and I don’t know how they knew…) And Alice got me the whipped vanilla lip gloss she uses from Bath and Body, so I would have my own and quit borrowing hers. In my defense, as soon as we get in the car the girls want lip gloss, and then they use mine because theirs is back in their bedroom. The kids gave Brian a huge bag of Resees peanut butter cups and kit kats with a special handmade candy holder to put them in for his desk, so he remembers to eat at work. And Wendy made a cornucopia of clay at school but the kiln caught on fire and exploded and everyone’s art from the last few weeks broke. How sad!

turkeycakeAlice baked for Thanksgiving. She wanted to make a cake that looked like a roasted turkey. She baked 2 marble cake mixes in a large Pyrex bowl for a LONG time. She covered that with a layer of store bought buttercream frosting, and then a layer of homemade fondant. The turkey legs she crafted from rice krispie treats also covered in buttercream frosting and fondant. She used toothpicks to hold them on to the cake. LOTS of toothpicks.

Everyone put in an order for their favorite holiday foods for dinner. I made a roasted turkey breast, Alice wanted some drumsticks, and Wendy wanted pigs-n-blankets. She doesn’t like turkey. Alice ordered store-bought mashed potatoes, which I of course doctored up with extra broth, pepper, butter, etc. I made twice-baked sweet potatoes stuffed with pumpkin and cranberries. I had never taken fresh cranberries and boiled them up to use for cooking, and they are yummy! Brian wanted stuffing. Wendy wanted corn cut off the cob – so she could eat it despite her braces. Canned just doesn’t taste the same. We had some kind of dinner rolls.

Other recipes I tried this weekend:

http://www.oprah.com/food/Indian-Spiced-Cauliflower-Dip with Kangaroo pita chips to dip in.

http://www.oprah.com/food/Spiced-Pumpkin-and-Brown-Sugar-Granola with tons of nuts and cranberries.

A soup chock-full of veggies that my mom had: broccoli, leek, carrot, onion – she added rice, I didn’t.

We also watched 2 movies this weekend – Avatar (the blue one, not the last warrior kid. Brian and I had never seen it. Very pretty movie.) and Nick and Norah’s Infinite Playlist. It was better than we expected – even the kids said so. It was mature without being too bad for them or over their heads. I’m a Michael Cera fan and a dry humor fan and a music lover, so it worked well for me. Except the first 5 mins. And Wendy said she would never chew gum again after watching it, but immediately asked for gum the next day.

Now I have a lot of work to get done. People realize the end of the year is approaching and there are all these things they should have updated on their website months ago, and everyone wants it done ASAP! Plus a couple new sites I’m putting the finishing touches on. And we’re designing t-shirts for the soccer team and our Ragnar Relay teams.

I did manage one gym workout this week, and one trip to the gym just to sit in the sauna and see if it would help my nose. 170 degrees for 10 minutes. It perked me up a bit. Today we’re going to the park to play something that involves a ball. But basically I treated this week like the vacation that it is! I hope you did too.

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What I’ve been up to

When you miss more than a week of blogging it’s hard to remember every workout you’ve done. The kids were out of town, and I had a bunch of doctor’s appts, and there was a lot of yoga.

First I had my physical and my doctor said my blood test results showed a high bilirubin level. I’m not a drug addict or alcoholic, and I don’t have hepatitis or any kidney problems, so they did an ultrasound of my gall bladder. The precursor to gall stones is “sludge” and the ultrasound showed none of that. Bilirubin levels can be high after an intense workout, and my appt was 10am, right after an 8am workout, so perhaps that is what caused it. I have a feeling my doctor will be keeping an eye on that for the next few appts though. My mom had her gall bladder out at 40, and they said she fit the bill for the perfect patient – fat, fair skinned, female, forty – the 4 F’s. So they want to be sure I am not following in her footsteps.

Along those same lines, I had my annual mammogram last week too. My mom and her sister both had premenopausal breast cancer before turning 50. I’m sort of high risk – my mom was negative for the gene but I’ve already had one biopsy and we’re of askenazi Jewish descent (Russia/Poland ~ think Fiddler on the Roof.) It’s so common in our geneaology that the Breast Center has even added “Are you  of askenazi Jewish descent” to the questionairre they give you before your exam.

Brian and I also took a day of playing hooky before the kids came back in town. We spent it boating with friends and I had a bit too much sun exposure despite purchasing SPF70 with helioplex. A knee, my forehead, little spots like that which I’m sure will be peeling quite a bit in a few days. But we had a great time, and I’m now determined to visit the Ringling museum in Sarasota for my bday next June.

Friday I drove to Ft Lauderdale to pick up my daughters. They are tall and happy with lots of new clothes. They have been enjoying Camp Grandma, and Wendy even made her own copy of my mom’s sweet and sour meatball recipe so she can make them for everyone at home. And they baked chocolate chip Challah which was unbelievable!

Sunday we went with my parents to see the Mikado. We enjoyed the show and the cast. It’s a funny Gilbert & Sullivan operetta - possibly the most frequently played musical theater piece outside of The Fantastiks. And SOOO much better than The Fantastiks!! The Mikado tells a tale of colorful characters in the mythical Japanese village of Titipu. A romantic triangle takes the usual course of thwarted romance and complications. We saw it when I was about 7 years old, and I think I enjoyed it just as much then as I did now because my father explained it all to me. (It’s in English, but moves very quickly and with adult humor.)

Even Alvin and the Chipmunks have done it! Skip to 1:29

Today we drive back home (4 hours) and then we have lots of prep before school starts over the next 2 weeks. Morning workouts will be what keeps me sane, and I really need to add more running back in because I’m feeling a little tummy coming on. My clothes fit comfortably but I’ve gained about 4 pounds. I’m so sad they moved my weekly Fri core class to while I’m at work, and I need to start using all those exercises after each workout the way I used to when they were fresh in my mind. Luckily I have this blog to look back on to remember most of them.

Last week I did a series with a 6 lb med ball. It’s 3 different exercises all on your butt on the mat. 1) Balance on your sit bones with feet off mat and tap med ball from one side of your waist to the other. Your upper body/torso/shoulders have to turn with you. 2) While still balancing with your legs up in front of you, pass the ball from one hand to the other under one knee, then under the other knee so the ball makes a Figure 8 around and between your legs. 3) Keep your knees up at a 90 degree angle, but lay on your back. Bring the ball over head, and sit up using your abs, bringing the ball to your knees. Start at one set of 12 of each of those. When you can do one set of 20 of each in a row, then start 2 sets of 12. You can also work your way up from a 4 lb ball to an 8 lb ball.

Power Yoga Question:
When you advance from up-dog to down-dog, do you choose to add a pushup in between?

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